Do you have racing thoughts and anxiety? It’s
hard to focus on anything else when anxiety takes control of your mind. You’re
filled with worries and uncertainties. You can’t calm down or rest.
Fortunately, there are ways to control anxious thoughts, and it just takes practice to master the techniques.
Try these tips to control your
anxiety:
- Distance yourself from the worrisome thoughts. Learn to look at your anxious thoughts in a different way.
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The key is to reshape how you think about things.
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When you get an anxious thought,
immediately identify it as a sign of your worry and not reality.
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Labeling your thoughts correctly raises self-awareness and makes it
easier to control them. It also gives you something
else to focus on instead of constant worry.
- Ask yourself questions. When
you get an anxious thought, stop and ask yourself these questions:
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What is the real reason for this
anxious thought? What am I really afraid of?
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Is there real danger, or is my
mind simply playing games with me?
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Is the negative outcome I’m
imagining likely to happen?
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How can I stop or change these
negative thoughts into something positive?
- View your thoughts as data. Sometimes it’s helpful to view your thoughts as data and your mind
as a data processing center.
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You’ll get a lot of data coming in
throughout the day. Some of this data can be incorrect and confusing. This is
an example of anxious thoughts.
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You may also interpret the data
incorrectly. This means you allow the anxious thoughts to take over and control
you. You let them grow and fester.
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As the data processing center, you get to decide how to handle all the
information. Remember you’re in control. This means
you can choose to toss out or ignore the incorrect data.
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Also, keep in mind that the brain
is designed to detect danger and is hypersensitive to it. You may pick up on
things that aren’t even real.
- Focus on the present. Many
anxious thoughts are focused on either the future or the past. You can
break free by focusing on the present.
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Avoid thinking too much about the
past or future by interrupting these thoughts. Notice when you’re thinking
about the past or future and guide your thoughts back to the present moment.
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Sometimes thoughts from the past
can make you afraid of the future. Remember
that the past doesn’t have to repeat itself. You have the power to change
how your future will be shaped.
- Take action. Anxious
thoughts often prevent you from taking action. They keep you stuck in fear
and worry. Learn to take action even when you’re afraid.
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Find one thing you can influence positively in that moment and take an
action.
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Action can actually decrease the
number of anxious thoughts you have on a daily basis. It can show you that
there’s nothing to be afraid of, that you’re powerful, and that you can make a positive difference.
- Get rid of unhelpful thoughts. Some thoughts may be true, but they aren’t helpful.
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Learn to tell helpful and unhelpful
thoughts apart.
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Then, start to filter out the
unhelpful ones. For example, if you know that the odds of making a perfect
presentation at work are low, but you still have to do it, this is an unhelpful
thought. It doesn’t encourage you to do your best.
For many people anxiety was the main contributor to their drinking. Whether you have social anxiety, fearful anxiety, or panic disorder it can many times lead to abusing substances in the search for relief. So in recovery, it is crucial to find ways to reduce anxiety so that you don't find it necessary to use a substance for that relief.
I have found over the years many ways to live a life I don't want to numb from. If you suffer from anxiety or anything else that prevents you from living an amazing life then go to My Calendar and book a call today. It's a free consultation so book today!
If you've been following me on Facebook or reading these blog posts then you already know I'm passionate about helping people. If you don't know who I am let me introduce myself. My name is Doreen Cunha AKA Recovery Enthusiast. I help women in recovery from addiction and other self-harm behaviors create a life they don't want to numb from.
If you'd like to learn more go to www.recoveryenthusiast.com
As always,
stay blessed and live your life Enthusiastically!!
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